Monthly Archives: April 2013

What Does Your Dog’s Emotions Go Through When You Are Not Home

ImageI had to write this blog because lately my male shih-tzu, Toby, has been going through quite of bit of separation anxiety lately .  Now, Toby, has always needed my attention as so do I, but lately he never lets me out his sight or does not to be home without touching. He follows me foot by foot and when I sit down, he insists on laying on my shoulder, my abs, my legs. He is constantly kissing me. I can’t figure out why he has all of sudden became so needy. I wondered what feelings is he going through when I am not home.

There are series of emotions that your dog go through when you are there.

Dogs are very social animals, and they would like nothing more than to be by your side 24/7. But we know , we can’t be there 24/7 because we owe to ourselves to have a happy balanced life.

1st Emotion:  Denial


Here is what is going through their mind.

“I’m okay, I’m fine, this is all right. Mommy  will be right back. I’ll just sit right here by the door waiting for her … she’s probably just right outside. This is fine. I am okay.”

We might imagine our dogs gleefully doing the Tom Cruise Risky Business slide when we shut the door behind us in the morning, but the more likely scenario is that the dog is experiencing some level of separation anxiety. This separation anxiety might manifest itself as anything from nuisance barking or whining (unpleasant for the neighbors) to stinky surprises left for you when you return home (unpleasant for you). If your dog is one to chew his feelings, you may also find some prized possessions or furniture vandalized during your absence.


2. Anger Erupts


3. Rationalizing and Bargaining

“If I balance all these treats, will Mommy  come home? I promise to never tear up another cushion again … you’re going to have to buy new cushions first, but I promise I won’t tear them up when you do, if you only come home like, now.”


Separation anxiety is a serious condition. Dogs suffering from the more severe forms may salivate, pace, bark, howl, and/or urinate and defecate in panic. They can destroy cars, homes, and possessions at an incredible rate, and dig and chew their way out of windows and doors. They sometimes resort to self-mutilation when left alone. Just think about how intensely frightened you’d have to be to lose the contents of your bowels when left alone, or to rip out the walls of a room to escape. These dogs are suffering immensely and miserably. They need help from a patient and understanding owner – and the owner needs professional guidance from an experienced, educated trainer who understands the behavior and the necessary steps to overcome it. In order to help a dog triumph over a severe manifestation of this condition, extraordinary support for his owner is absolutely crucial.


4. Depression Sets In

“Oh mighty wolf gods, Mommy is never coming back, is she? She’s gone. She’s gone. I think I am dying. I am going to die without the two-legger. My heart is breaking. I am going to lie here and never move again.”


5. Acceptance

” I acccept my new life as a lone wolf devoid of my Mommy. I accept this the way I accept trips to the vet and the cone around my neck. I accept it the way I accepted the new cat you brought home from the pound. Who will feed me now?”

Your dog is starting to accept how things are at the moment. But do we really want our babies to suffer through these stages. Our parental instincts kicks in when we see our babies suffering emotionally.

If you want a calm dog or transition your pet more smoothly , it doesn’t get any calmer than sleep. Before you leave the house, make sure you schedule time for a brisk walk or a vigorous game of fetch in the backyard or nearby dog park. Having an anxious dog home alone is bad enough. Having a dog that is anxious and hyper is a recipe for disaster. Exercise helps calm your dog down in two ways. Physically, it tires your dog out, so he might be up for a nap while you’re away; and emotionally, exercise can level out your dog’s brain chemistry in the same way a good workout can leave humans exhilarated. This is another great benefit of hiring a Professional Pet Sitter.

The best-case scenario is you can come home for lunch and spend a little quality time to break up your dog’s day. But if your schedule or commute doesn’t always allow that, it may take a village.Hiring a Professional Pet Sitter is priceless in this situation. There are other options like family or a neighbor but a more upscale option is to hire a Professional Pet Sitter to come by and provide a professional field trip.

6. Euphoria YaY! She’s home!

“What’s that? Is that the four-wheel monster I hear in the driveway? Is it — wait — let me sniff … yes! It’s mommy’s  smell! SHE’S BACK OH WOLF GODS I AM SO EXCITED I WILL PEE MY PANTS.”

Separation Anxiety is a serious issues that needs to be addressed. Its best to consider some solutions to help your dog’s quality of life.

Your own behavior and feelings could be a big trigger to your dog’s separation anxiety, therefore you must make sure you are sending the right message, helping your dog to stay calm, instead of adding anxiety and overexcitement in to the mix.

Here are a few reminders of how you can help your dog by changing your own behavior:

– Don’t feel bad or sad about leaving your dog alone, your dog will feel your bad energy and associate it to being left alone.

– Avoid having any kind of interaction with your dog before you leave, no talking, hugging or petting to comfort your dog, all that adds to the anxiety levels and sets your dog for failure, just get ready and go, like it’s an absolutely irrelevant event.

– Same thing as you come back home, don’t pay attention to your dog until he has almost forgotten about you again.

– Remember excessive attention and affection is the main reason why dogs develop separation anxiety, it is not healthy for your dog, so please control yourself, and help your dog become more independent and confident.Image



Bravo! Raw Frozen Dog Food Recall


April 3, 2013 — Bravo! of Manchester, Connecticut has announced it is voluntarily recalling three of its raw diet frozen foods for dogs and cats because they could potentially be contaminated with Salmonella bacteria.
According to the company…
“…while these products tested negative for pathogens by an independent third party prior to distribution, they were run on the same day or an adjacent day to a product that tested positive for pathogens.
“The product that tested positive has been 100 percent contained and is not subject to this recall.”

What’s Being Recalled?

Item #21-405 – 5 lb chub (tube) of Bravo! Chicken Balance frozen raw diet with a “best used by” date of 3-6-15 or 3-12-15 printed on the plastic casing of the package

Item #21-102 – 2 lb. chub (tube) of Bravo! Chicken Blend frozen raw diet with a “best used by” date of 3-21-15 printed on the plastic casing of the package

Item #51-508 – 5 lb. bag of Bravo! Beef Blend Burgers with a “best used by” date of 3-21-15 or 3-22-15 printed on the back panel of the plastic bag

No other products are affected.

About Salmonella

Salmonella can affect animals eating the products. There’s also risk to humans from handling contaminated pet products — especially if they have not thoroughly washed their hands after having contact with the products or any surfaces exposed to these products.

Healthy people infected with Salmonella should monitor themselves for some or all of the following symptoms: nausea, vomiting, diarrhea or bloody diarrhea, abdominal cramping and fever.

Rarely, Salmonella can result in more serious ailments, including arte rial infections, endocarditis, arthritis, muscle pain, eye irritation, and urinary tract symptoms.

Consumers exhibiting these signs after having contact with this product should contact their healthcare providers.

Pets with Salmonella infections may be lethargic and have diarrhea or bloody diarrhea, fever, and vomiting.

Some pets will have only decreased appetite, fever and abdominal pain. Infected but otherwise healthy pets can be carriers and infect other animals or humans.

If your pet has consumed the recalled product and has these symptoms, please contact your veterinarian.

What to Do

For more information, consumers should visit the Bravo website or call 866-922-9222 Monday through Friday 9:00 am to 5:00 pm ET.

You can report complaints about FDA-regulated pet food products by calling the consumer complaint coordinator in your area.
Or go to Pet Food Complaints.